With age comes life experience and wisdom, and thereโs a lot Iโve learned that has made me a happier and more self-assured person than I was when I was younger. But unfortunately, with age also comes wrinkles and a plethora of new aches and pains, and although some of these less glamorous aspects of aging are inevitable, we have more control over how “old” we look than we think!
Our impressions of other people’s ages are formed by an amalgamation of visual cues, and many of the cues we associate with old age are easy to avoid. Below, I’ll shed some light on these little details that rarely go unnoticed by others, so you can avoid them too!
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1. Dirty Shoes
Shoes are made to be worn outside and are bound to get a little dirty, but pairing extremely worn or excessively dirty shoes with a stylish outfit can ruin the effect of an otherwise put-together look!
To clean up suede shoes or boots, brush them gently with a suede brush. For leather shoes, cleaning them up can be as simple as using a damp paper towel to wipe away dust and dirt. Polishing leather shoes is more time-intensive, so make that a seasonal practice.
Seasonal shifts are a perfect time to evaluate the state of your footwear since youโre already moving things in and out of storage.
2. Pet Hair & Lint
When you’re hanging out around the house with your pets, you accept your clothes are going to bear a certain amount of dog or cat hair. But pet hair and lint arenโt the most ideal accessories if youโre trying to look professional or put-together!
Before you step out the door, use a lint roller to pick up errant pet hair, human hair, or miscellaneous fuzzy bits. Make sure to get your shoulders, along your arms and legs, and down your backside.
If youโre wearing a coat, hat, or scarf, give those the same treatment. If youโre in a pinch or canโt find your lint roller, a piece of packing tape rolled around your hand works just as well!
3. Pilling Sweaters
As far as I’m concerned, it’s always cardigan season! Make sure youโre looking chic, not frumpy, in your favorite sweaters by using a simple fabric shaver to buzz off sweater pills in seconds. Even the finest wool can pill, but a quick, careful shave will make even your oldest sweaters look brand new!
4. Chipped Nails
Generally speaking, polish-free fingernails tend to make a better impression than chipped nail polish. One way to make touchups easier after a manicure is to bring along your own bottle of polish so that any touchups you do will blend in seamlessly.
5. Overpowering Perfume
While perfume doesnโt necessarily impact how you look, it can make a powerful impression on those around you โ and not always in a good way. Wearing an overpowering amount of perfume sends the message that you may not be particularly self-aware, even if you’ve just gotten used to the scent.
Instead, use a light hand when applying perfumes to avoid overdoing it. Consider using a mister for easy application, or use only a half-squirt from your favorite bottle. (If you’re not sure if your perfume is too strong or not, ask a friend or family member who will tell it like it is!)
6. Lipstick On Your Teeth
While makeup wearers of any age can wind up with lipstick on their teeth, it can draw attention away from a put-together look in the blink of an eye. Luckily, this faux pas is actually pretty easy to prevent!
After applying lipstick, take a clean finger and put it in your mouth, then purse your lips around your finger and pull it out. This will remove any excess lipstick on the inside of your lips that might otherwise end up on your teeth.
7. Missed Hairs
Hair grows all over our faces, but some of it may be longer, thicker, or more noticeable than others. And missing those long, scraggly hairs on your chin or cheeks while plucking is certain to project an older image than youโd like!
To make sure youโre not missing any glaringly obvious hairs while shaving or plucking, use a lighted magnification mirror (like my favorite one) and a good quality pair of tweezers. Take your time while looking for errant hairs on your cheeks, chin, neck, and even inside your nostrils.
A lighted mirror will make it easy to see those pesky long hairs, so you can get rid of them and proceed with confidence!
8. Dry Hands
They say dry, wrinkled hands are often the first tell-tale sign of aging. Between sun exposure, years of hands-on work (like digging in the garden and dishwashing), and thinning skin, itโs no wonder our hands start looking dry and wrinkly!
But you can keep your hands looking youthful by moisturizing them regularly. Try my favorite โmiracleโ hydrating cream!
9. Bad Posture
Sitting and standing up straight not only helps you look younger, it also helps keep you alert and awake. Plus, itโs a good workout for your core too!
Focus on keeping your shoulders back and your head level with the ground. Youโll feel more confident and experience less back pain over time!
Do you have other anti-aging beauty or behavior tips?



























Hello, hope you’re all well. I was wondering if you have a trick to remove tough fibers in cloths? I found one, but there are a few more.
Thanks for your time,
Please log in or create a free account to comment.Rocheelle
Rochelle, you can try soaking the fabric in a mix of water and a little salt or baking soda for about 30 minutes, then rinse and dry. You can also add a splash of white vinegar or fabric softener in the rinse cycle to help relax and soften the fibers. Hope this helps. :-)
Please log in or create a free account to comment.Just shave your face! It’s great for your skin, and eliminates peach fuzz and stray hairs.
Please log in or create a free account to comment.And, please brush the BACK of your hair! I see so many ladies who have pretty hair but neglect the back of their heads.
Don’t neglect eyebrows. Even if you don’t wear makeup, eyebrows that are well shaped, balanced, and groomed, really make a difference in your appearance.
Please log in or create a free account to comment.One thing that wasnโt mentioned. Spending lots of time in the sun trying to get tan will definitely age people over time. It was kind of a pain having to watch it with skin that took forever to get any color. But it definitely pays off when you get older.
Please log in or create a free account to comment.In love with your skin care routine and tips to avoid looking old((( So many useful info about beauty, fashion and lifestyle forme. Thanks!
Please log in or create a free account to comment.Dressing like an 18-25 year old wonโt help. Skimpy and tight clothing on a middle-aged body puts figure flaws on full display. Tattoos and nose rings donโt take any years off either.
Please log in or create a free account to comment.I always thought nail polish was meant for women with beautiful, graceful hands. If beautiful hands are one of your best features it makes sense to accent them with polish. I never had nice hands and now they are so misshapen from arthritis. Nail polish would only draw more attention to my hands.
Please log in or create a free account to comment.Stop grunting when you get up.
Please log in or create a free account to comment.We need to soften our makeup as well. Bright lipstick and blush or heavy eyeliner can be harsh looking.
Please log in or create a free account to comment.Yes! Thick, heavy black eyeliner no matter what natural coloring you have, time of day, or occasion. I cringe when I look at photos of me years ago, full eyes and face, middle of the day—thankfully I updated and lightened my routine in the meantime.
Please log in or create a free account to comment.Walk like a younger person. Put a spring in your step and walk quickly and confidently.
Please log in or create a free account to comment.Be young at heart. Try and do new things, and just be you, makeup like you, dress like you. Have fun.
Please log in or create a free account to comment.Wonderful attitude, Diane! I completely agree. :-)
Please log in or create a free account to comment.Try to look your best but definitely don’t try to look 30 again! It doesn’t work and makes you look foolish. Another tip is to just age gracefully-remember, after a certain age we tend to become invisible. In some ways that’s a bonus!
Please log in or create a free account to comment.Good advice!
Please log in or create a free account to comment.Smile more and spread a little happiness! Makes age less important!
Enjoy the “me time.” Whether you spend it on long overdue home projects and clean-outs (like me); volunteering; or more time with family and friends; cherish the ability to do more that makes you happy. Your happiness will make you radiant – and age won’t matter.
Please log in or create a free account to comment.Definitely hold your neck up high! Extra chins in side view look Super Old!! I learnt this the hard way when a cheeky teenage niece snapped a photo of me watching tv
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